Is Boarding School Right for Your Child? Six Questions to Help Your Family Decide

Choosing Holderness means choosing a boarding school where students grow, explore, and thrive in a community that fosters personal and intellectual development. 

Choosing a boarding school is a transformative decision for any family. At Holderness School, we’re committed to creating a supportive environment that helps students thrive academically, emotionally, and socially. We encourage families to consider the following questions to determine if your child is ready to embark on a journey that will prepare them for a lifetime of leadership and growth.

1. Does your child embrace outdoor challenges and exploration?

At Holderness, the outdoors is more than just a setting; it’s part of our curriculum. Our students thrive outdoors - hiking, skiing, biking, and participating in programs like Out Back, our 11-day winter wilderness expedition. If your child is energized by the outdoors, enjoys physical challenges, or shows curiosity for the natural world, they may be inspired by our approach that blends academics with hands-on, outdoor learning experiences.

2. Is your child interested in academic growth and personal development?

Holderness students are curious and driven learners eager to dive deep into academics and leadership opportunities. Our small class sizes and dedicated faculty provide a nurturing yet challenging academic environment. If your child is passionate about learning, enjoys tackling complex subjects, and embraces growth, a boarding school like Holderness, with our rigorous academics, may be the perfect place to fuel their ambitions.

3. Does your child have a passion for community involvement?

Holderness values the sense of family and belonging that our close-knit community provides. We believe every student has a role, from serving on the service council to participating in the jobs program. If your child enjoys connecting with others and finds meaning in service, Holderness’s emphasis on character and community could be an ideal fit.

4. Has your child developed a strong sense of independence and responsibility?

Living away from home is a big step, requiring skills like managing time, making decisions, and staying organized. Our supportive faculty and house parents help students adapt to boarding life while encouraging them to take responsibility for themselves. If your child is increasingly independent, strives for self-sufficiency, and shows resilience when faced with challenges, they might be ready to embrace the independence that comes with boarding school life.

5. Does your child possess the adaptability to thrive in a new environment?

Boarding school life is filled with new experiences, friendships, and unexpected hurdles. Holderness students demonstrate grit and a willingness to step outside their comfort zones. If your child is open to meeting new people, trying new activities, and adapting to changes with a positive outlook, they may be well-suited for the rich, diverse experiences that Holderness provides.

Each Holderness student brings unique strengths, passions, and potential. If these questions resonate with your family, Holderness School could be the place for your child to grow, thrive, and lay the foundation for a purposeful future.. 

6. Does your child embrace the challenges of sports?

Holderness School offers athletic opportunities for every level, from rigorous varsity programs to inclusive JV teams. If your child loves the camaraderie, discipline, and challenge of sports—whether aiming for top-level competition or simply enjoying the game—they’ll find a supportive community here. Our athletic program is designed to develop resilience, teamwork, and a strong sense of personal achievement on and off the field.

Discover the Boarding School Difference

The boarding school experience at Holderness goes far beyond the classroom. In today’s world, young people face unique challenges—from evolving social pressures and the complexities of social media to growing environmental concerns. At Holderness, our balanced approach helps students navigate and thrive in this changing world.

Through a blend of rigorous academics, outdoor adventure, creative expression, leadership training, and a close-knit community, we foster resilience, self-awareness, and critical thinking. We’re not just preparing students for college; we’re preparing them for life.

Ready to learn more? Connect with our Admission team at admission@holderness.org to discover how your child can find their place, grow, and pursue their passions at Holderness School.